Being Your Own best Lover

This word…. 𝕃𝕠𝕧𝕖𝕣. What does this stir in you? For most of my life, this word was attached to a very specific storyline… A gorgeous man whisking me away to ravish me, adore me and thinks that I’m the most beautiful thing in the world. Sound familiar? Or someone mysterious, just slightly out of reach…who makes my heart beat faster and I feel uncontrollably magnetized...

Your body has stories to share

Your body has stories to share…from theearth of your bones, skin and sinew.waters of tears, blood and sweat.fire of your passion, rage and courage.air of your dreams, visions and wild soulethers of your timelessness, vast mystery embodied.Your body has tales to tell…Of mountains climbed, journeys embarked, dreams forsaken.Unrequited love, and possibly… the occasional whisper of, “what if…”Wrinkles, scars and memories...

There is no such thing as safety.

There is no such thing as safety.Life is not safe.Relationships are not always going to be what we imagined.Spouses fall in love with other people. Children get sick.We lose our jobs. What if we were to let go of the need for safety, and commit to never abandoning ourselves and being fully open to life? How can you not ever leave yourself...

Do not love half lovers

“Do not love half lovers Do not entertain half friends Do not indulge in works of the half talented Do not live half a life and do not die a half death If you choose silence, then be silent When you speak, do so until you are finished Do not silence yourself to say something And do not speak to be silent If you accept, then express it bluntly Do...

Do you dare?

“Sometimes a woman is afraid to be without security or without certainty, for even a short time. She has more excuses than dogs have hairs. She must just simply dive in and stand not knowing what will happen next.” Leaning in to the discomfort. Breathing through the uncertainty. Pausing long enough...